Recap and update

For the record I now have my laptop up and running again. Now all I have to do is get internet at home again (my wifi network I was using is no longer available)...

I didn't get out on Tuesday like I'd planned. She wanted to have a night for herself, and suggested Thursday as an alternative. That was fine with me.

We originally made plans to go to Buffalo Wild Wings at Cascade Station to watch the Blazer game, but then she changed her mind and we met at The Rock Pizza and Brew Pub, near downtown Vancouver. I'd never been there before. It was a great atmosphere, but the pizza left a lot to be desired. I know good pizza....trust me!

We weren't alone for this excursion, as she had brought her roommate along, as well as met her dad and stepmom there. I'd met her roomie before, but this was my first time meeting her family and I have to say they were awesome. Her dad was funny, and very generous. Before I even had time to find out what my split on the bill was, he snatched the whole ticket up and paid for all of us. THEN he invited us all back to their house to finish watching the Blazer game (which was why we were going out to begin with) as well as to have some more drinks.

We got a chance to chat a bit at the house during time-outs and quarter breaks, and then the older sister arrived. I'd never met her before either, but she was very nice, and seemed genuinely happy to meet me. She also said something about having heard so much about me, which makes me wonder if there'd been some story telling involved.

The night ended and we said our goodbyes in the driveway. I don't know if we're on the same level, but I was kinda hoping for a hug but didn't get one, and wonder if it's in the cards or not, but I'm not gonna give up just yet.

I did buy her a Christmas gift... nothing expensive but hopefully something that will be appreciated and maybe help me figure out what direction things are heading in.

If you have any feedback, as always feel free to leave it.

Merry Christmas to you all!

Been a busy last couple weeks...

First I have to apologize for not posting for nearly a month... My laptop has been down, and is still on the fritz... I should have it up and running soon.

Things have been good the last couple weeks for me. I've had a couple of good back-and-forths on Plenty of Fish, and it looks like at least one could move towards a meeting in person. There have been some negative exchanges though, such as the woman who seems only interested in meeting for sex, which I'm looking to avoid...

For a change I'm making connections with people who are my age or older. I think this might help me avoid some of the problems I've experienced in the past.

The first one I've been talking with is a stylist. Works in a salon. She's really nice, and it seems like we have some things in common, like watching movies and cooking. The other is a single mom who is separated from her abusive husband, who messaged me first. We've been talking, have a lot in common, and have been texting the last few days after exchanging phone numbers (her suggestion!). If I had to pick one of the two as far as who seems more likely to be someone I meet in person, it would be the latter. Nothing against the stylist, but she isn't as talkative and seems almost like she's only going through the motions.

I've also been talking with the Redhead, and even had her over the other night as a celebration of the end of the school term. No, nothing happened, except for some cuddling. We had some drinks and some pizza, and three movies to enjoy the night with.

Another, younger, lady from my past and I have reconnected. We had a fling a while back and she's having some difficulty with her current relationship (read: deadbeat dad-to-be). While I'm not really looking to get involved seriously with her, I wouldn't mind going out and having some fun times with her. Honestly, part of the reason is this is going to be her fifth child, and that's kinda too many for me. If I become seriously involved with a single mother, with plans for the future, I think two would be my limit.

I'm due to go out tonight (it is after midnight at this time) with my date from the game. She and I are going to go and hit up some brew pubs. Not sure how many, but we will be starting with the Salmon Creek Brew Pub in downtown Vancouver. Great beer and good food. Good times will be had.

I'll let you know how the night goes. And, as always, please feel free to chip in with any comments, insights, and/or advice.